STAY COOL: The world only goes round by misunderstanding.

We are infected by our own misunderstanding of how our own minds work

One of the most common causes of people fighting ceaselessly is misunderstanding. It tends to create so many problems between couples, friends and families. It is misunderstanding that can irreparably damage a relation.
All of us go through life being misunderstood at least some of the time. How can we ever completely understand each other when we have all walked different roads, with different life experiences? We can't. We can try. We can put ourselves in others' shoes and develop empathy, certainly. But we can never hope to be completely understood by others.

We all have number of friends. Friendship is such a relationship which we should definitely choose carefully because we reveal our character not only by the company we keep but also by the company we avoid. Never choose a friend without complete understanding and , Never Lose a friend because of a small misunderstanding.

Basically its all our selfish nature that we see things in a favourable way for us. We rarely see things from the point of view of another person because we look at the facts through the screen of an impression or an interest which distorts our view; and then there are accusations, quarrels and misunderstanding.

As I already told, sometimes we prejudge people, we must not prejudge others too quickly without even knowing the whole scenario. Misunderstanding could ruin our relationship. A single moment of misunderstanding is so poisonous, that it makes us forget the hundred lovable moments spent together within a minute.

When nails grow long, we cut nails, not fingers. Similarly, when misunderstanding grow up, remove it not your relationship