STAY COOL: Don't Prejudge someone too Quickly

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.

If we really thought about it we would be shocked on how many times during a day we pre-judge people. The English idiom " Don't judge a book by its cover " is a metaphorical phrase which means you shouldn't prejudge the worth or value of something, by its outward appearance alone.

Lets read a story of a woman:

A woman was waiting at an airport one night, with several long hours before her flight. She bought a book , bag of biscuits and found a place to sit.
While she was reading the book , she see, that the man sitting beside her, as bold as could be. . .grabbed a biscuit or two from the bag in between, which she tried to ignore to avoid a scene.
She was getting more irritated as the minutes ticked by, thinking, “If I wasn't so nice, I would blacken his eye.” With each biscuit she took, he took one too, when only one was left, she wondered what he would do.
With a smile on his face, and a nervous laugh, he took the last biscuit and broke it in half. He offered her half, as he ate the other, she snatched it from him and said, "Oh brother, now its the limit, you are rude and an ingrate person."
She had never known when she had been so angry, and sighed with relief when her flight was called. She gathered her belongings and headed to the gate, refusing to look back at the thieving ingrate. She boarded the plane, and sank in her seat, then she sought her book, which was almost complete.
As she reached in her baggage, she gasped with surprise, there was her bag of biscuits, in front of her eyes. If mine are here, she moaned in despair, the others were his, and he tried to share.
Too late to apologize, she realized with grief, that she was the RUDE one, the INGRATE, the THIEF.

When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself

Every single person on the planet has a story. Don't judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you!

Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens.Circumstances and situations do color life but you have been given the mind to choose what the color shall be.